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"Çѱ¹¿¡¼± ¾î¸° ½ÃÀýºÎÅÍ Ã¼µæÇÏ´Â »óȲ ÀÎ½Ä °³³ä(concept of situational awareness)ÀÌ´Ù. ÀÏÁ¾ÀÇ °¨¼º Áö´É(emotional intelligence)ÀÌ´Ù. ¿Â°® °¨°¢À» µ¿¿øÇØ ´Ù¸¥ »ç¶÷ÀÇ ¸öÁþ¡¤¾ð¾î¡¤Ç¥Á¤ µîÀ¸·Î »ý°¢°ú ´À³¦À» Áï½Ã °¡´ÆÇØ(instantly gauge other people's thoughts and feelings) ºÐÀ§±â¸¦ °£ÆÄÇÏ´Â ÀçÁÖ(knack to read the room)´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ´«Ä¡´Â "ÁÁ´Ù"°í ÇÏÁö ¾Ê°í "ºü¸£´Ù"°í ÇÑ´Ù.
Çѱ¹¿¡¼± ¾î¸° ³ªÀ̺ÎÅÍ(from an early age) ´«Ä¡¸¦ ¹è¿î´Ù. ÁÖº¯ È帧À» °¨ÁöÇØ ±× ºÐÀ§±â¿¡ Á¢¼ÓÇØ¾ß ÇÑ´Ù´Â(be connected to their environment) °¡¸£Ä§À» ²÷ÀÓ¾øÀÌ ¹Þ´Â´Ù. ±×·¡¼ ¼¼ »ìÀ̸é ÀÌ¹Ì ³²ÀÇ ´«Ä¡¸¦ º»´Ù(try to read others' minds). ºÎ¸ð°¡ ¾ÆÀÌ¿¡°Ô "³Ê´Â ¿Ö ±×·¸°Ô ´«Ä¡°¡ ¾ø´Ï"¶ó°í ³ª¹«¶ó´Â µ¥´Â, ¹ö¸©¾øÀÌ ±º´Ù°í ²ÙÁßÇÏ´Â(scold for behaving rudely) ÇÑÆíÀ¸·Î "¿Ö ÁÖº¯ »óȲ¿¡ ¸ÂÃßÁö(plug into their surroundings) ¸øÇÏ´À³Ä"´Â ¾ÈŸ±î¿òÀÌ ¹è¾î ÀÖ´Ù.
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´«Ä¡¿¡µµ Àå´ÜÁ¡(upsides and downsides)ÀÌ ÀÖ´Ù. ºÎÁ¤Àû Ãø¸éÀº Â÷Ä¡ÇÏ°í(set its negatives aside) ±àÁ¤ÀûÀÎ Âʸ¸ º¸ÀÚ¸é, ´«Ä¡·Î ÃëµæÇÑ Á¤º¸´Â ÀڽŰú ´Ù¸¥ ¸ðµç »ç¶÷À» Æí¾ÈÇÏ°Ô ÇØÁÖ´Â(make themselves and everybody else comfortable) ¼ø±â´ÉÀ» Çϱ⵵ ÇÑ´Ù. Çѱ¹ »çȸÀÇ °ø¼ÕÇÔ°ú Á¸Áß(civility and respect)µµ ´«Ä¡¿¡¼ ºñ·ÔµÈ °ÍÀÌ´Ù.
»î¿¡ ÀÖ¾î ¸ðµç °ÍÀÌ ±×·¯Çϵí(like everything in life) Çѱ¹ÀÎµé ´«Ä¡µµ ±×·¸´Ù. ¼ø±â´É°ú ¿ª±â´É(good function and adverse effect)Àº ´©°¡ ±×°É »ç¿ëÇÏ´À³Ä¿¡ ´Þ·È´Ù(depend on who uses it)."
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